Author: Feather Berkower

  • Children, Teens and Online Sexual Solicitations

    Parents tell us they are both supportive and wary of their children’s online involvement. Children and teens go online to do homework, grab an Uber, socialize, play games, and find out information about any topic – from sports to babysitting jobs to dating and sex. Online Sexual Solicitations Online abuse, however, is more common than…

  • Your Top 10 Questions About Body Safety

    Your Top 10 Questions About Body Safety

    1.  At what age should I begin talking with my kids about body-safety?  It’s never too early or too late to start talking with children about their body safety, as long as the information is age-appropriate andpresented without fear. For example, when you’re bathing your 18-month-old daughter, you might say: “Mommy is cleaning your back…

  • Grandma Wants a Hug – Teachable Moment

    Grandma Wants a Hug – Teachable Moment

    The holidays are a time of greetings and affection, so it’s particularly important to remember that children and teens are safer when they get to choose when and with whom to show affection. If a family member or friend wants to greet your child with a hug or kiss, and your child does not want…

  • When Children Play  – a Teachable Moment

    When Children Play – a Teachable Moment

    You’ve just eaten a big meal and the children, of all different ages, are restless. They want to go play while the adults linger over coffee. What kind of supervision is required to ensure everyone’s safety?Children can get into scenarios while playing which can be compromising. Remind kids to keep the doors open and review…

  • Air Travel for the Holidays – Teachable Moment

    Whether you are traveling over the holidays or sometime in 2017, here are some body-safety conversation tips for talking with your children about airport security, x-ray machines, and pat downs. Talk with children about airport and airplane rules. With young children (< age 8), have this conversation on the way to the airport. With older…

  • What Does Consent Look Like at Different Ages?

    Learning about boundaries and consent is a process that takes place over many years. Here’s what it looks like at different ages.Toddler: In the words of a two-year-old child, whose mother has been teaching body-safety concepts for over a year, “My vagina is mine!”Toddler to Tween:Mom to her Mother: “I know you love to hug…